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8 year old daughter kissing her girlfriend? My 8 year old daughter had a girl friend come over this afternoon. They were in her room playing and I walked into her room and they were laying on the bed kissing. When I walked in the both sat up quick and didn't say anything. I didn't want to embarass them so I didn't say anything. Honestly, I wouldn't of known what to say anyway. Any suggestions on how to handle this or what to say to my daughter? Should I also tell the other girls mom? I'm really confused! Thank you.

Sandicheeks replied: "they are curious and experimenting just ask her"

CRYSTAL S replied: "uhh yeah u should tell her mom! I am sure it's normal for kids that age to be curious about that sort of thing but you do need to talk to her ...she's not blind she sees this stuff all over TV and hears about it at school...just be open and honest with her and make sure you let her ask u questions and let her know it's ok to ask them & to be curious about it,just not to be doing it.I would want to know if my daughter was at someones house & got caught kissing someone, i'd be very upset if i were to find out in some other way & know that it was kept from me by the parent who was responsible for the children.The bottom line is really that kids r going to hear all kinds of "sex talk" way before they r old enough but if we as parents talk to our children about it,then at least we know they r hearing the truth about it & not a load of garbage made up by 8-13 year olds....Good Luck!"

Chronic replied: "They're just curious and it's normal."

poladottie replied: "You need to tell the girls mom. Second, you need to be open with your daughter no matter how weird it is. Talk to her about what she ws doing, ask why and where she got the idea. Don't make her feel like a freak. be calm."

goombajoe replied: "dont say anything thery were just exploring im sure she will be fine"

Tim replied: "Sit down and talk to her and ask her about it. Be open and expect anything. At that age I dont think it is experimentation or curiosity. It is likely natural and it is also likely your daughter is gay. Dont be upset or shocked or dissappointed. Just talk to her. Although I would be upset about the kissing at her age, whether its with a boy or a girl. Thats just too young."

Jeezuss Jan replied: "They could have been role playing something they saw on tv. Maybe your daughter is gay. Kids at that age know they have romantic attractions but probably do not connect it to anything sexual. Whatever the situation, love her and be supportive."

Pheeny replied: "I think you can chalk this up to them being extremely curious and experimenting. I would talk with your daughter. And if I were the other mother, I would want to know about it as well."

alexxiiis replied: "its possible they were just being curious. [like the "doctorgame"] i'd let it alone for now. if it happens again i'd bring it up with your daughter. she's probably curious and confused."

violetblue418 replied: "At that age its normal to "play house". Most of my friends kissed eachother at one point or another just to see what it was like. At 8, its curiosity and not hormones that are driving them. I'd just leave it alone. She's not going to get pregnant from kissing her girlfriend."

colombiazfinestma replied: "omg this happend to my little cousin... Deff. tell the other girls mother because who knows where she might be getting it from as for your daughter tell her about her private parts and at least kissing is a NO esp. a girl as well explain to her what shes doing is wrong"

T Time replied: "No, don't tell the other mom. Just say nothing as your daughter is too young to be lectured about her sexuality. If it happens again, tell her that it's not acceptable behavior for kids of their age to kiss. When the subject comes up in the future though, you might want to find out if she prefers girls, and try no to judge her for it."

jasm g replied: "very confusing situation,. i think you need to talk to your daughter and talk to the friends mom... and have her mom talk to her about that, if it comes down to it, you might have to not let your daughter see that friend anymore... maybe she's a bad influence on her and is talking her into to things like that. 8 is old enough to know what they;re doing."

twosweethounds replied: "Relax. They are curious, and experimenting. It doesn't mean they're gay. Two young girls feel safe playing these games together. It helps them work out some of the mysteries of life, without getting hurt or embarrassed. Better this, than that they start chasing boys! If I were you I wouldn't say anything. Leave it be. It's not likely to last long."

Julianne replied: "aww haha I'm sorry. I have seen this with young boys especially (I help out at my church quite a bit with kids, also baby-sit for people a lot). it's usually from what they watch on tv, and they usually don't know what they are doing. You have nothing to worry about, but you do need to talk to your daughter and see where they got that idea from, I am almost positive it was something they watched on tv, or saw an adult do. They are just curious, but I would encourage you to tell her friends mom as well and the two of you talk about it, maybe her daughter has done it a lot, and you'll know what to make of it. But I would say don't encourage your daughter, explain to her why people kiss."

Maria replied: "They were probably experimenting to see what it was like to kiss, and/or imitating something they'd seen or heard about. I would wait a little while and ask her if there's anything she wants to know about dating and adult relationships. It's not too early to give her a beginning sex education. By the time she reaches junior high, she'll probably already know, and will have received info from the wrong source. Explain that it's natural to be curious about things like that, but that kind of relationship is for when she's much older. Try a book (for young people) about human sexuality and relationships from the library for help. P.S.- You should tell the girl's mom, but you should tread carefully if you don't know what her reaction will be, also, you don't want the girl to feel like you tattled on her. She should feel comfortable going to your house. Good luck. Better yet, don't tell her. If they were doing something dangerous, I'd say tell her, but in this case, I think it will cause more harm than necessary."

djdancer replied: "it's called curiosity.just think it could be a boy.leave them alone.if you don't make a big deal of it,it will fade as fast as it came.it's called a stage of life."

ErinFromOz replied: "Don't freak. When I was about that age I showed my friend how to masturbate and we'd do it together. Today I am as straight as they come, happily married and expecting our first child."

Sharon Pet replied: "Gay, WTF? Just a child, don't freak out. I'd tell the parent just so it doesn't come up by accident with the other child."

hillbilly gal replied: "awww. weren't you young once? I remember one time me and my friend Julie wanted to know what it was like to kiss someone. So, we kissed. no harm in it. Remember how your friends were when you were young? It was all about boys and exsperimenting. 8 is a little young... when we did this we were more like 12. but - the times they are a changin!"

jenzie replied: "that's normal maybe she saw it on TV and she is cutrious"

Conner's Mommy replied: "tell the girls mom but don't get to paranoid. if she turns out gay love her no mater what."

Boeafitness.com replied: "just sit down with your daughter anjd tell her why she was kissing her friend. and also make sure you ask your daughter has anyone ever touch her in a bad way as an adult.. you cant let that one go and you should tell the other girls mom. the friend might have made the first move and her mom need to talk to her also. be calm and tell her you love her but need to know why she did it. good luck."

Angel replied: "yes talk to your daughter and most of all listen to your daughter help her understand what she was doing it was not wrong nor right what she done you need to understand why and she needs to understand why your asking she will thank you for it your daughter knows you saw her now she wants to no why you havent said anything if you speak to her now she will speak to you about anything and thats what you want"

Jannie Wilson replied: "Wow, that's pretty strange. My three daughters never did that. I guess it's sorta normal if she was kissing her boyfriend, but if its a girl? Wowww!! I'd have a "talk" with her. Tell her all the important stuff, but dont get into dating with boys. Tell her to be honest, and that she needs to keep herself under control. I'd call the girl's mom in secret, so that they dont get upset. Dont ground your daughter, she didnt know. She might be curious. Theres no reason to ground her, but there is some reason to have a talk with her. Tell her your not angry, just confused. Tell her this poem written by my best friend Virginia Ellis who is a poet: The Girl Poem She never picks up her toys, Just leaves them scattered 'round. She's curious 'bout dating boys, And that lip puckering sound. Don't know what to say, Wonder what I should have said, And I see her face every day, It's grumpy and mad in bed. Told her how much I love her, She says she loves me too, I told her how her cat will purr, And she tells me a thing or two."

Pax B replied: "She is just 8"

Janette S replied: "Do not listen to anybody that says she is gay. That is B.S. I agree with everybody saying to talk to your daughter and don't get mad. As far as telling the girl's mother. If your daughter was over there and the girl's mom saw them doing that, would you want her to tell you? One night my daughter's friend came over and spent the night, 5 or 6 years old.....they were supposed to be in bed, I saw the door move and went in there and my daughter was sitting on her bed with her friend bent over, with her pants down, in front of her. My daughter was sticking an object in her friend's bottom. I was instantly sick. She pulled up her pants real quick. My husband and I separated them and started asking questions. We told her parents. End result.......my daughter's friend was being molested by her babysitter's husband. This sickning sin was now exposed to my daughter. Anyways... I think you should tell her mom. Just keep an eye on her and maybe when her friends spend the night, make them sleep in a different room."

Kiki replied: "Yes, she's just curious. It's nothing to worry about (especially the gay comments). When my niece was 6, I walked in on her kissing one of her girl friends that lived next door. Children tend to be very curious and like to try different things. My niece is 13 now, and she's far from gay and definately not sexually active. But if you'd feel better to talk to her about it, you should go for it."

My son sneaks into my bed? I wake up sometimes and my almost- 4 year old son is in my bed kissing me like lovers do and I find it rather disturbing even though he is just playing. I have asked other mothers I know if this has happened to them and they said no - what should I do and has it happened to any mothers here?

piekingamerica replied: "you son is weird needs to act like a kid not a sneak baby"

myusernameisbetterthanyours replied: "Not me. You could try telling your son that is not how you kiss mommy and show him the correct way. Since he is almost 4 he may understand. Good luck!"

Brezzy replied: "This is coming from learned behaivor, he saw this somewhere or saw someone doing this, you may want to question him on this. I would be alittle concern myself."

Julie S replied: "Has he seen you and your husband kiss like that? Don't get me wrong I think that kids should see loving actions from their parents but since he is four I would just explain to him that he needs to give good little boy kisses those kind of kisses are only from daddies. Also (and alot of people will give me flack over this:) ) I have made my bedroom of limits to my kids. They know they can come get if they are scared or sick but they know my room is my husbands and my room. You need to have that one place in your house that is your sanctuary. Anyway he is probably just trying to show you affection and love like he sees demonstrated from daddy"

Jnine replied: "I haven't had to deal with the kissing, but the kids sneaking into our bed I have dealt with. I agree that you need to show him how little boys should kiss their mommy. Also, try not to be overly affectionate in front of him with your husband/boyfriend for awhile. As for him sneaking in: With my own kids I let them lay by me for a few minutes and ask them what they are doing. If it's "I was scared" then they stay for about 10 minutes. After that I send them back to their own beds. No one spends the whole night in our bed any more. I would suggest that you take him back to his room, tuck him in, and give him a kiss on the cheek, then go back to your bed. If he comes back again just tell him he needs to sleep in his own bed. At his age he doesn't know what he's doing. He is most likely mimicking what he sees. Maybe you need to make sure he's not seeing something he shouldn't. If you're being intimate with someone you should lock your door so he doesn't walk in on you. Just my opinion..."

zeb6219 replied: "Establishing limits for your child is a priority. It sounds to me like he has witnessed you engaged in the prelude to a sexual encounter. You haven't mentioned his father. Is he present? I think brief snuggling is OK between the two of you if you sit on your couch. Affection is important to children, but you must stress that your bedroom is your private place. As well, it's up to you to teach him what is an acceptable kiss and what is not."

CindyLu replied: "What has this child seen to cause such actions? You need to sit him down and explain clearly that this is not accpetable behavior and that he must not do it again. when he comes into your bed, you take him back to his and firmly tell him to stay there. Remove him every time he comes back and stop any inappropriate kissing immediately. You increase your firmness if he continues with this behavior. At 4 he is not old enough to understand what he is doing but he is old enough to understand when you tell him not to do something that he should not do it."

Marissa Di replied: "You may want to ask him sometime where he learned this. Does it happen to him at daycare? Somewhere, he was exposed to this and now practices this with you. An early outline of the birds and the bees is appropriate, rather than disciplining him. Explain how a husband loves his wife, the man loves his woman, etc."

styree replied: "DEAR MISS AND DEAR MISS JULIE I AM NOT GIVEN BLAME TO EITHER OF YOU OK HE JUST LOVES HIS MOMMY AND LIKE YOU SAID MISS JULIE THERE IS A TIME FOR EVERY ONE AND EVERY THING I DO THINK IT IS OK FOR HIM TO NAP AND SLEEP WITH HIS MOMMY OK AND I TOO WILL GET A THUMBS DOWN BUT I DO NOT CARE OK I HAVE BEEN ON HERE SCENTS DEC.12TH 2006 HUGS AND KISSES MOMMY SHOULD SHOW HIM RIGHT MISS JULIE EVEN THOUGH I AM NOT A MOMMY I WAS RAISED BY MY MOTHER AND OTHER LADY'S YES I DO HAVE A FATHER WHO DOES WORK VERY LONG HOURS 12-16 HOURS A DAY SOME TIME 5-7 BACK THEN NOW AT LEAST I CAN SPEND TIME WITH HIM BACK IN THE 1970-91 I COULD NOT SO I LEARNED TO CUT OUT PATTERNS CUT SQUARE'S FOR QUILTS SHELL PEAS SOWED ON A SOWING MACHINE PS DEAR MISS IF YOU DO NOT WANT HIM TO NAP WITH YOU AFTER SETTING DOWN THE LAW HEN LET HIM KNOW SO OK I AM NOT TRYING TO BE CRUDE RUDE ARE ANY THING FOR ONE MY MOTHER DOES NOT PUT UP WITH IT OK AND I AM NOT ON HERE TO OUT RIGHT HURT ANY ONE FILLINGS ON YAHOO ANSWERS OK I WANT THIS VERY CLEAR ON MY PART OK TAKE CARE"

Is CYCLONE, CRANK DAT (SOULJA BOY), LOW BY FLO RIDA, BED, KISS KISS, BEUTIFUL GIRLS, OR NO ONE? MY FAVORITE IS CRANK DAT AND CYCLONE. WHAT IS YOURS?

AbstractLife replied: "no one"

Tyler St. John replied: "crank dat soulja boy."

SillY BEÑI!:) replied: "none.:) sorry..."

Frenchie a.k.a F A S H I O N replied: "All of them are trash, but I guess Low and No one. I am sick of soulja boy and cyclone. Kiss Kiss, I haven't heard the whole song. Beautiful girls WAS a great song, but now it's old."

Tia08 replied: "Whoa, it's out of Bed, and No One...I'd say Bed looove that beat =)."

★D!!ZZY UP THE G!RL★ replied: "kiss kiss"

leoislovex3 replied: "Beautiful Girls :D"

catilina replied: "flo rida all the way"

why my mouth dries while kissing? every time I kiss for like a little longer my mouth dries and I give pauses to sip on some water but it seems sips are not helping me at all? does anyone has the solution? my partner is not complaining neither annoyed but I just do not want any breaks or pauses while I am in the bed kissing. and YES, this question is in the right section ..

Valbuena replied: "You have a glass of water right nearby? o.0"

mkhalfqueer replied: "maybe you could eat something that makes you salivate a lot before you start kissing. and then spray some breath spray in your mouth so it ain't nasty"

Dogg replied: "try chewing gum, from my experience it always works."

Siouxsie 66Sick replied: "I'm not being obnoxious...perhaps a medication you may be using could be causing dry mouth? Just throwing out possiblities."

Could you please tuck me in bed & kiss me goodnight? my eye lids are getting sooooooo heavy

REVHEAD replied: "Sure... sweet dreams"

angellover6056 replied: "Do you want me to read you a story too"

~ Just Me ~ replied: "Goodnight...Sweetdreams!"

devious461 replied: "Absolutely, goodnight"

zen replied: "OK, crawl under the covers. Snuggle down in there. Here's your big fluffy pillow. Do you want a glass of water? Sweet dreams now. Sleep warm and cozy. Here's a nice little kiss on your forehead to send you off to Dreamland. Good night! :-))"

Lu Lu - RIP Bubbles. replied: "No but I will say nighty night sleep tight."

jacpeptea replied: "sweet dreams filled with all these kisses so here we go i'll tuck you in like a suitcase so you're ready to travel to dreamland.."

cats replied: "Ok. Goodnight and sweet dreams."

♥Sarcasm Becomes Me♥ replied: "Sure, I'll sing a lullaby and read a story too...sweet dreams"

dato replied: "sure, night sweety and dont let the sex bugs bite"

When In Bed? When two people are in bed kissing and touching is it normal to put your hand in her knickers is she is willing do other couples do it? When two people are in bed kissing and touching is it normal to put your hand in her knickers if she is willing do other couples do it she seemed to enjoy it?

ROSEMOL replied: "Use good english please."

Courtney A replied: "if youre a couple then that should be normal b4 i got married my husband and i did it all the time and we didnt even have to be in bed"

prince_jr_8888 replied: "Normal!I don't think so? ASk her!"

thebushman replied: "If you are in bed kissing, I would assume the knickers would have been kicked."

LiL'rocker replied: "ya dude ask her"

E.A.P. replied: "Of course ! Go get her dude;)"

♥Gilmore♥ replied: "ofcourse"

shldman002 replied: "who the hell still wears knickers"

Radagast_23 replied: "Well, that's tough for me to answer, as I'm not straight -- however, if I was in bed with a male and I put my hands inside his shorts and kept making out -- its cool to go on and give him head for sure -- so I would think that yes, she is willing. Reyn"

What are some good slutty animes? Does anyone know a huge list of some slutty animes, where the main male character gets tons of chicks in his bed, kissing him, or getting laid everyday? Where all the chicks the main character meets, the chicks fall in love with him? I already found some already like Strawberry 100% and Please Teacher, and Love HIna. Can someone just give me a huge list of some good slutty animes? Thanks.

Auda replied: "Try fintstones and kim possible."

Leafy Tree replied: "There are quite a few but one springs to mind, popeye?"

jp s replied: "elfen lied: well it's kinda bloody but there's no censorship :D FAKKU.NET!!!!!!!!!!"

X-x-Katie-x-X replied: "gtfo"

Bob replied: "Golden Boy if funny as hell. Hes like a monk or something, and seems to make every chick he meets fall in love with him, but hes always seems to miss his chance because random occurences. its only six episodes, look it up on HULU. Also, Tenchi Muyo, all the chicks are in love with him for some stupid reason, but that anime kinda sucks. Cutey Honey is about a chick who seems to be naked half the time, but its kinda anoying because of the high pitched voices. Actually, almost every anime has some chick in love with the main character for stupid reasons...."

XMahou replied: "Hanaukyo Maids Nagasarete Airantou Girls Bravo"

Rohit replied: "Asu no Yoichi Girls Bravo Negima Chaos Head Akikan Ah!My Goddess Hayate-The Combat Butler Sekirei Heart(1 and 2nd season) Ef-A Tale of Memories. School Days Rosario+Vampire"

Red Dwarf replied: "Rosario + vampire"

->snow ice flare<- replied: "i think you will like school days tenjho tenge ai yori aoshi nagasarete airantou(guy stuck in an all girls island) futakoi just try it"

my bf's son caught us in bed, is this wrong or just an accident? After recently finding out that i was pregnant, i spent the night at my bf's house while my son stayed with my mom. His 7 yr old son sleep walks apparently and walked into the bedroom as we were in bed kissing and i had my hands around his beard. I wonder what his son thought of this? He seems kinda like a strange kid. i've only met him 3 times and this time was the third because he was sleeping when i came over at night. the first time i met his kid, was actually even worse, because my bf called me and wanted me to take him to the ER because he was having a kidney stone attack and his son was with him at the time. when i got there, i found my bf laying on a picnic table unable to stand up because he was in so much pain and the kid very upset. wonder what the kid tihnks of me now?

SAL replied: "you say you had your hands around his beard?"

Anna:Marie ツ replied: "I think you ask some strange very inconsistent questions. You just asked a question about baby names stating your boyfriend has 5 daughters and then you gave 6 daughter's names. You said he really wanted a son and now he suddenly has a 7 year old? LOL! You sound like a troll, get a life! A real one!"

Sleep in the same bed with my boyfriend not having sex? We went to his friend's party until midnight and then he took me to his place. We're in the same bed kissing and cuddling but I was a bit drunk at the party and soon fell asleep. He's supposed to wake me up later and take me back but he just let me sleep over. The next morning he asked if I sleep well and I said yes coz I'm a heavy sleeper. He said he's cold and couldn't sleep coz I hogged all the bed, grabbed all the blankets and kicked him in my sleep. I felt embarrassed coz this was my first sleep over with him (accidently) and I was surprised he didn't take advantage of me. But I do gain a lot more trust on him after that. We've been together for 6 mo and haven't had sex. He's 31, I'm 26. I'm a virgin but he's not. He's not my 1st bf. He never pushes me to have sex with him. My questions are 1. is it normal to sleep with your bf/gf in the same bed not having sex? 2. how long will guys wait for girls to have sex? I tend to wait till marriage. Will he get annoyed and dump me after waiting too long? 3. I'm still not sure he's with me just because he wants to score me or not? Am I able to figure out? He introduces me to his good close friends except to his parents. Preferably answers or suggestions from guys over 30 or 28. Girls answers too~ Please Be Honest, coz I searched yahoo answers but they seemed general.

[♥] Rachel replied: "Actually I think it's pretty sweet, it means he has a lot of respect for you. If you want to wait until marriage to have sex, than by all means stick with that, it's a good way to find out if the guy loves you for you and not just for what you can offer him sexually. Don't worry about him dumping you, if he really cares about you, he'll wait, that's the only way to tell for sure. Please answer my question btw if you get a chance :( "

Freedom replied: "He obviously likes u and respects you alot.. if he doesnt mind not sleeping with u then its fine and he not gonna dump u if he loves u.. dont worry about it.. its totally normal.. and about his parents, he probably wants to wait for the right time.. or he doesnt want to rush into things too quickly.."

Adoc replied: "If you're both that age and he has been with you for 6 months already without sleeping together then I'm sure he isn't just with you to "score." You should be happy that he didn't take advantage of you. Of course people can sleep in the same bed without having sex, I don't know why you would find that to be weird. If you are worried he might dump you because he doesn't want to wait until you're married then maybe you should talk to him about it. You probably should have done that already, since he has the right to know. Just tell him your concerns and ask what his feelings are about it. If he really cares about you then he'll wait. I have a friend in her 20's who won't even KISS a person before marriage, yes it sounds crazy but it's true. But her boyfriend doesn't pressure her and he has been with her for 2 years. Some people don't just introduce every person they date to their parents. He probably wants to make sure it's really serious before he lets his family meet you. That's not weird at all."

Anita <3 replied: "i was gonna give you some good advice but sorry Im just 22."

ApRiL replied: "He respects you. That's a big bonus. the best way for you to find your answer is to talk to him. He's a grown man, he can handle it. Ask him if sex is an issue for him. Tell him you would prefer to wait until you're married, and ask him if it bothers him. Just be direct."

shawn v replied: "wow 26 and a virgin. its normal to sleep in a bed and do nothing. that poor guy 6 months and nothing he really likes you. I would of been gone along time ago. I would dump you if you made me wait til marriage. I want to make sure its going to be good and im satisfied wih her before marriage. I am 32 I have never waited more than a 2 days a week at the most before she wanted it. If this guy was going to score he wouldnt wait 6 months. Meeting the parents is a big deal for some people. You must be secial if hes waiting that long. I have alot of friends I havent seen anybody wait like that since high school"

Randy N replied: "Hah ! If he's been with you 6 months and you guys havent had sex, then he's not with you just to score. Put that thought out of your mind. He sounds like a nice guy who genuinely likes and cares about you. Being in bed together doesn't always mean sex. There is no stated time line for sex either. It happens when it happens and if he knows about you wanting to wait until you get married, than I'm sure he will have no problem with that. And hey, about the parents.......not all guys take their gf's home to meet the parents. You're worrying about nothing there . Enjoy your guy !!! Have fun !!!"